February Feature: Teen Pregnancy Support Group Offered through Hope Alive
At the Agency Luncheon hosted by Inasmuch Ministry of Broadway Christian Church in Fort Wayne on February 25, Jennifer Smith shared about a new Teen Parent Support Group being offered this spring through Hope Alive, Inc. where she works under executive director Betty Kahlenbeck.
Jennifer Smith is a senior at IPFW and has initiated a support group for pregnant teen girls, fathers-to-be, and teen parents with children up to three years old through Hope Alive. The group is slated to last until the end of the semester in May, but Smith’s hope is to find an organization in the city that will keep this program going permanently.
Smith, from Lagrange County, is passionate about group support for teenage parents and parents-to-be in the region. “There are many resources available for pregnant teens and unwed mothers—places to get supplies, knowledge and aid—but not a whole lot of resources just to go and talk,” Smith explained. Smith has felt greatly encouraged by others that such support is needed in the region. Other agency representatives at the luncheon shared their surprise that such support is not already more widely available, but Smith was not aware of any such groups.
Smith continued to say that parents, feeling overwhelmed, afraid, or embarrassed, put their pregnant girls out of the house when they find out they are pregnant. Smith states that embarrassment is an unfortunate reality that is more common when the situation arises within the upper class and among well-known families.
Smith shared that when these pregnant girls are kicked out, they really don’t know what to do and are often afraid to ask – thinking their questions are “dumb” and being embarrassed for feeling they know so little. Smith hopes to create an environment where new and expecting parents (with separate groups for parents of 3-, 2-, 1-year-olds, and for those expecting) can find acceptance and encouragement as they experience these quick-changing stages together.
Through Hope Alive, Smith has been distributing many flyers and letters to promote the new support group. If you or someone you know is interested in such a support group or in helping Jennifer continue her work after May, please contact Hope Alive.
Hope Alive is located at 1747 N Wells St., Fort Wayne, IN 46808-3235.
Phone:(260) 420-6100.
Christina Lebo 10:25 pm on March 7, 2011 Permalink |
I am currently looking into doing the same exact thing but do not know where to start. I currently reside in the Elizabethtown PA area. I was a teen mom and so was my mother. I am now the mother of 5 girls and pregnancy is definately always on my mind.I think that both of the teen parents to be or otherwise need to have a source that they can talk to and resources made available to them. It is not easy and not all teens know how to find the help they may need, such as work, daycare, parenting, and doctor visits. I think it would also be interesting if there were an organization that helped young parents with transportation and daycare. It is overwhelming getting started and a very scary decision to make. I would love to be a part of an organization in my area for just this purpose. It is like you read my mind!
Jennifer Smith 1:26 pm on March 8, 2011 Permalink |
Christina like you and your mom, I was a teen mom myself. My son was born three days before my high school graduation. Here in IN we are overwhelmed with places for this population to go to get daycare, parenting, supplies and so on. However, there is no support or a very large lack of support for these parents. As stated in the article, I have been told by so many that this is such a needed service. Christina, I encourage you to find somewhere that is willing to take your ideas and put them in Gods grace. God has blessed me with Hope Alive and I can only hope and pray that he continues to bless me after my journey at Hope Alive comes to an end. I have sent out MANY fliers, letters, made MANY phone calls have been made…the list goes on and on. I worked my first 15 weeks at Hope Alive just getting the word out. I am now slowly getting people and other agencies that are calling me in need of my help. I pray that God leads you into a path so that you can offer this much needed service in your area. Please keep in touch!